25.Communication, speeches

Q1 Which is better, being a communicator or a listener?

Ans- That's a tricky question, because both skills are really important. On one hand, being a good communicator means you can share your ideas clearly, convince people, and work better in a team. At work, that's super useful for presentations and leadership. On the other hand, being a good listener is just as valuable, because people want to feel heard and respected. A listener often notices details that others miss, and it helps build stronger relationships. If you only talk and never listen, you sound arrogant, but if you only listen and never speak, people might ignore your ideas. So I'd say both matter, but listening is often underrated. The best communicators are usually the ones who know how to listen first.

Q2 What benefits does the Internet bring to communication?

Ans- I think the Internet has completely changed how we communicate. The biggest benefit is speed. You can send a message or make a call instantly, instead of waiting days for a letter. Video calls are another huge thing, because you can actually see the person, which feels much more personal. Social media also helps people share their lives and stay connected in real time, even if they live in different countries. For work, the Internet makes it possible to collaborate on projects with people from all over the world, which would've been impossible before. And of course, it's way cheaper than international phone calls used to be. So overall, communication has become faster, easier, and much more global thanks to the Internet.

Q3 What personal qualities does a good communicator need to have?

Ans- In my opinion, a good communicator should, first of all, be confident 'cause I'm sure that communication and confidence go hand in hand. When you're confident, it shows. And it attracts others to you like a magnet. When you're confident, you show people that you're worth their time and effort to listen to you. Also, confidence allows you to speak concisely and with clarity. And, to my mind, confidence is what allows people to move quickly past the small talk to invite everyone into the heart of the conversation. Oh, I want to add one thing. One of the most important rules of effective communication is looking a person directly in the eyes. However, people who lack confidence tend to avoid eye contact. And avoiding eye contact shows disinterest and, in some cases, dishonesty. Patience is another trait that a good communicator should have. Since communication is a 2-way street, it requires people to listen, understand and then respond to successfully communicate ideas with others. And for this, a person should be patient. I'm convinced that people who can get their message effectively are witty because using humour in communication can help gain attention, create rapport and make a message more memorable. Everyone would agree that it is humor that breaks down barriers and makes people want to read and hear what you say. And, of course, being a good communicator means being open-minded, approachable, logical, intelligent, cheerful, tactful, polite.