39.Bad behaviour, bringing up children

Q1 What bad behaviour do children usually have?

Ans- Well, I think that the most common child behaviour problems are lying, whining and defiance. All of them are aimed to attract attention, get what kids want and test the limits of their parents' rules. I'd also mention such behaviour problems as aggression like throwing a math book when kids are frustrated with homework or punching a sibling when they are mad about some other situation, and temper tantrums such as stomping, screaming and throwing themselves to the floor. One more common problem with behaviour among children I can think of is disrespectful behaviour to others. What I mean is name calling and mocking other people. Well, and of course, both physical and verbal impulsive behaviour as well.

Q2 How should parents stop their children from behaving badly in public?

Ans- Oh, I think parents should, first of all, stay calm and not shout at the child. If they start yelling in public, it can make the situation worse and the child might get even more upset. It's better to keep your cool and show the kid how to stay calm too. Also, parents should take the child aside and talk to them quietly. That way, the child doesn't feel embarrassed in front of everyone, and it's easier to listen when there's no noise or attention. It might take a few minutes, but it usually works better than making a big scene.

Q3 Are parents these days stricter than those in the past?

Ans- To be honest, I feel like parents these days are more strict than before. They're way more careful about safety and set lots of rules about where kids can go. Like, you can't just go out and play without texting your location every hour. They also limit screen time and are strict about phone or internet use. Lots of kids have time limits on apps, or their phones get checked regularly. I guess it's because adults want to protect their kids, but it can feel like a lot of control. Compared to how things were in the past, kids now have way more rules to follow.

Q4 Whose influence on children is more important, that of friends or that of parents?

Ans- I believe friends' influence on kids is really strong because friends have a big impact, especially when kids want to fit in and be accepted. For example, children might start copying how their friends dress or act just to feel like they belong. Also, sometimes friends influence behaviour, style, and interests more than parents do. This means kids might pick up new hobbies or ways of speaking from their friends, which shapes who they become.